Tag Archives: Divorce

Mistakes to Avoid in Divorce

Posted on July 30, 2009 by Gail Otis

Whether you found a divorce attorney’s business card in your spouse’s pocket, or have just been handed a complaint for divorce by a constable, there are common mistakes that are often made but which should be avoided.
 

Ignoring the situation can cause irreparable harm

 
Often, a person will receive the Complaint for Divorce and become so devastated, [...]

Leaving the Home Does Not Mean Giving Up Your Interest

Posted on July 14, 2009 by Gail Otis

When parties decide that their marriage is over, oftentimes the question arises, “who is going to move out?” There is a common misconception that the party who moves out of the home is giving up her/his right to that home, or to receive money from her/his interest in the home. The result may then be [...]

Removal of Children from the Commonwealth

Posted on July 8, 2009 by Gail Otis

After a divorce judgment has been entered in a case, the children of the couple remain subject to the authority of the court so long as they live in the Commonwealth.  Because of this, when a custodial parent seeks to move out of the Commonwealth with the children, and cannot get consent from the other [...]

Alimony duration

Posted on June 19, 2009 by Gail Otis

The Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court has heard arguments in a case and will decide an issue which may result in changes to future decisions regarding alimony. As written, the alimony statute does not require a termination date of payments to a former spouse unless expressly stated in the divorce agreement. Alimony orders issued by the [...]

Surviving Divorce

Posted on March 9, 2009 by Gail Otis

Going through a divorce is difficult at any time, but has become even more so as a result of the many problems that many face in this recession.  Perhaps the most difficult to resolve is what to do with the former marital home if there is no equity due to the downturn in the real estate [...]

Recession Affects Divorce

Posted on December 4, 2008 by Gail Otis

For many, the effect of the economic downturn became apparent one year ago as people saw their monthly expenses skyrocket due to the increases in the cost to put gas in the family car, to put food on the family table, and to pay the home utilities.  Most consumer goods increased in price, as distributors [...]

What should I do if I am served with “divorce papers?”

Posted on September 8, 2008 by Gail Otis

Service of divorce papers means that someone, typically a constable, has handed you documents filed by your spouse. The documents usually include a copy of:

the complaint for divorce
a summons
a blank financial statement
a tracking assignment which indicates who your judge will be, and
information about a rule which prohibits you and your spouse from transferring, selling, or [...]

Enforcing your divorce agreement

Posted on August 14, 2008 by Gail Otis

If your spouse was ordered to pay you alimony, child support or for other expenses, or to allow you access to your children, and has not done so, then they may be in contempt.  You must first review the Court order or judgment to determine if there are grounds for you to file a complaint [...]

Is there anything you should do if you are considering a divorce?

Posted on August 14, 2008 by Gail Otis

If you think you may wish to seek a divorce from your spouse, there are steps you can take in preparation.  Having representation by an attorney whose practice includes a substantial portion of family law is strongly recommended.  If you are comfortable speaking confidentially with others, you may wish to seek recommendations for an attorney.  [...]

Can I file for Divorce in Massachusetts?

Posted on August 14, 2008 by Gail Otis

If you live with your spouse in Massachusetts, you may file for divorce here.  Even if you have not lived with your spouse in Massachusetts as a married couple, you may still seek a divorce here as long as you have resided in Massachusetts for at least one year.